Gambateh Candace!!

haha.. last night keep thinking about Jerry and Candace's problem. Forgot to talk about my father's S'pore friends. Last night they called and tell us that they have came to Msia. This early morning my parents went Genting with them untill evening. Then we brothers and sister drove to KLCC to meet 4 of them. We had dinner together in the chinese restaurant in Mandarin Oriental Hotel. Uncle came to Msia for work and in the meantime celebrate his 25th marriage anniversary with his wife. We bought them a pewter plate with the word "福" in the middle of the plate. My parents knew this old couple even before four of them were married. Haha.. old best friends. I think I mentioned about them before in the blog. About I cooked for them once during one of their visit to our house. I think I no need to intro much about them le. haha..
Today, as usual, I accompanied Candace. She started to feel better. But it didn't last long. After the dinner, when i went home. Candace tell me that Jerry called her just now. She told me that she wonder how can he gave up so easily. Is it that this relationship meant so little to him? I didn't know how to answer. If Jerry isn't my friend I would have scolded him fiercely enough in front for Candace so that at least she might feel better. Because Candace tell me alone about how sad he made her and actually she is willing to give him a chance and she is willing to change. I quickly forwarded the message to Jerry hoping that he will realise he still have the chance to make things right. But he just say:" she made the decision. Since that will make her feel better. Let it be." He don't know she said it because he told her that breaking up is a better way. She did what Jerry hoped for and she didn't want Jerry to say:"lets break." so that it became as if she is the one who said it. In this way it will not make Jerry feel that bad compared to if Jerry were the one who opened his mouth and say:"lets break." In the end, Candace still think of Jerry and did what he hoped for. Jerry.. Do you know how much she loved you? haiz.. I'm the middle man, I know what both of them are thinking from the bottom of their heart. So I didn't care if they wanted each other to know what each other really thinks and i forward each of their messages to each of them. I thought by this they would know exactly what each other thinks since they only tell me but not each other and that by doing so might make things turn back and they will reunite. Candace was waiting for Jerry's call. But even after knowing that he actually got the chance to turn back. He still say :" Let it be.." Haiz.. I also no breath to talk to him le. After so many hours of talking and telling him that he still got chance, all he need to do is call her and tell her he wants another chance, he still say let it be. Since he so persist in his decision, I talk till next month also no use. So I asked Candace to give up on him since that is what he really wants. Move on with her life.
Candace, let it be ba. You have done what you can do. Sorry that I failed to help you. Don't think about it liao k.. I know you need time, but don't take too long ya. Gambateh..!!